I came up with an interesting question in my head that perplexes me. When it comes to a relationship, how much do you tell the other person of your experiences in relationships before them? I mean is a ground rule set down not to talk about it? If you do talk about it what should you say and what should you leave out? If you leave it out and you betraying your boyfriend or girlfriends trust? Are you not being fully honest? Do I have to tell the time I was suspended from school for making out with a girl under a table? Is that mandatory? How about admitting that I am still friends with a few of the girls I was crazy about? I am unsure how much should be let known and what shouldn't? Is it deal with it as it comes or all at once? What would you say, or do? My friends who I asked actually had a conversation with a young woman about this very thing.
"I was talking to my friend about this very idea, and she said that men should not bring up the idea of past relationships. girls view that as you still have feelings for them. if they ask tell them, but don't reminisce without them asking."
I think it also has a lot to do with how long the relationship has been going on for. I think that the longer it is the more you are both able to discuss things. I don't know sounds about right but as i learn more I'll definitely post. Just some food for thought.
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