Nice Guys Finish Last part 2

So I ended my last post of nice guys finish last and after a search on tumblr (I'm really regretting these searches anymore) I found that the general consensus isn't the same anymore on viewing nice guys. According to quite a few posts nice guys are worst than the douche bags. Why? because apparently if a guy is acting nice it must mean he is attempting to use his nice act to get you into bed easier. Really? REALLY? Do people honestly believe this? I mean come on. Do people lack so little faith in humans that they believe that to act nice is a ploy just to have sex with a woman?

Granted I could understand the point they make. They try and say that nice guys feel they're entitled to something like sex or dating since they are such nice and wonderful people to the woman. But those people aren't real nice guys because what they want is just to use the woman. A real nice guy wants a relationship, wants something deeper than just sex. I'm a nice guy and i am nice to women and I feel like I am entitled to nothing but their friendship. I'm not looking to have sex with a girl or anything. I am looking for an honest relationship whether that be a romantic one or a friendship one.

Do i expect something? Yes I do. I expect mutual friendship and respect. That's. It. That's all a nice guy wants is simply mutual respect and friendship and you know what? If a guy complains then that's his problem. i have been placed in the "friend zone" quite a few times. Know what I did? I moved on! if she doesn't wanna be with you then she doesn't wanna be with you! Move on nice guys! But don't you dare complain and say "I did this, this,this, this." You were being a friend and you are entitled to nothing but the benefits of being a friend.

Yes, I was even there before and felt entitled and you know what? it destroyed me and I made a lot of bad decisions. That's why i say never feel you are entitled to anything for being someone's friend except respect and friendship. Because if you are just doing things, expecting to be rewarded then there isn't much worth to it is there?

So the main point here I am trying to make is that not all nice guys are just pretending or bad or whiny. Some actual do care and are there for you because they want to be. Don't count them all down and out but to you nice guys you should know that being nice isn't about getting a reward. The only reward is the good feeling and hey if you end up liking a girl and she says no and dates some jerk or something then just move on. You can't control who she likes or is with. Your feelings can move on but you should still be there for her as a friend.