I have to make a correction

I am almost certain before I have made the comment that I do not wish to be anything like my parents, this stemming from the arguments and fights we have had. But this morning as I sat and talked with my Dad and received some spiritual encouragement from him I decided I'd change what I said. I have no desire to take on any of the attributes I disagree with or any of their qualities that are negative. So I have no desire to give into the same negative qualities they have though now I realize I probably have my own downfalls that my own kids will say "I won't be like my parents!" Its a cycle and I only hope they to come to the same realization I have come to. That despite the bad times, the yelling, the anger and loud voices, they love me and aren't always like that. They have other qualities to themselves and I've failed to see them because of my own focus on the negative. So this is the realization I have come to. Crazy isn't it?